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Moving With a Child After Separation
Family Law
Moving With a Child After Separation
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Moving With a Child After Separation
Introduction
A parent cannot assume they may move with a child after separation simply because the child primarily lives with them. If the move is likely to significantly affect the child’s relationship with another person who has parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact, it may be a legal relocation. Advance written notice, consent, or a court order may be required before the child moves.
Under the federal Divorce Act, a person proposing a relocation generally must give at least 60 days’ written notice in the prescribed form. A person entitled to object generally has 30 days after receiving notice to object through the prescribed process. If there is an objection, the child should not be relocated unless the parties resolve the issue or the court authorizes the move. Exceptions or modified notice requirements may be available where giving notice would create a risk of family violence.
Alberta families may also proceed under the provincial Family Law Act, particularly where the parents are not divorcing. Existing agreements and orders may impose their own geographic, notice, or consent requirements. The applicable statute and procedure should be identified before housing, school, employment, or travel plans become irreversible.
What Counts as a Relocation?
Not every change of address is a relocation. Under the Divorce Act, a relocation is a change in the child’s place of residence, or in the residence of a person with parenting time or decision-making responsibility, that is likely to have a significant impact on the child’s relationship with someone who has parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact.
The analysis is about impact, not a fixed number of kilometres. A move across Calgary may be significant if it changes schools, makes exchanges impractical, and disrupts frequent weekday contact. A longer move within a rural area might have less effect where the existing schedule and travel remain workable.
Relevant practical effects include:
travel time and transportation;
the regular parenting schedule;
school and childcare;
activities and medical care;
relationships with siblings, grandparents, and community;
language, culture, religion, and Indigenous heritage;
the child’s age and tolerance for travel;
each parent’s work schedule; and
whether meaningful in-person contact can continue.
A local move that is not a relocation may still trigger a duty to give written notice of a change of residence. It may also breach a term requiring consent before changing schools or leaving a defined geographic area.
The Difference Between a Change of Residence and a Relocation
The Divorce Act separates ordinary address changes from relocations.
A person with parenting time or decision-making responsibility who plans to change residence generally must notify other specified people of the planned change, the new address, and updated contact information. Different notice content and timing apply where the change qualifies as a relocation.
This distinction matters because relocation notice includes additional information and creates a formal objection process. Parents should not decide for themselves that a move is “minor” based only on distance.
Where disclosure of a new address or advance notice would create a safety risk, the court may modify or dispense with requirements. A person should seek legal advice before withholding information rather than creating an informal exception.
Who Must Give Relocation Notice?
Under the Divorce Act, a person with parenting time or decision-making responsibility who intends to relocate themselves or the child generally has notice obligations. The notice is provided to other people who have parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact under an order.
The prescribed notice generally identifies:
the expected date of relocation;
the new address and contact information;
a proposal for how parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact could be exercised after the move; and
other information required by the legislation and form.
The notice should be complete, properly delivered, and supported by proof of delivery. An informal text saying “we might move” may not satisfy the statutory process.
Provincial cases can differ. A Family Law Act order or parenting agreement may require consent, a particular notice period, mediation, or a court application. The exact document should be reviewed.
The 60-Day Notice Period
Divorce Act relocation notice must generally be given at least 60 days before the expected move. This period allows the other person to understand the proposal, seek advice, negotiate, and object if necessary.
Notice is not the same as permission. The proposing parent should not treat the 60 days as a countdown that guarantees the move.
Before serving notice, prepare a realistic plan addressing:
housing and neighbourhood;
school or childcare;
employment and work schedule;
medical, therapeutic, and special needs;
the revised parenting schedule;
holidays and school breaks;
transportation logistics and costs;
virtual communication;
travel documents;
connections to extended family, culture, and community; and
transition timing.
A vague proposal makes meaningful negotiation harder and may weaken the evidence that the move has been planned around the child.
How Can the Other Parent Object?
Under the Divorce Act, a person entitled to object generally has 30 days after receiving the relocation notice. An objection may be made using the prescribed objection form or by bringing a court application, as permitted by the legislation.
The objection should state:
that the person objects to the proposed relocation;
the reasons for the objection; and
their views about the proposed parenting, decision-making, or contact arrangements.
Silence can have serious consequences. If no valid objection or court application is made within the period, and no order prohibits the relocation, the person may be permitted to relocate after the notice period. Anyone receiving notice should obtain advice promptly rather than relying on informal messages.
An objection is not a final decision. It preserves the dispute for negotiation or court determination.
What Happens After an Objection?
Once a valid objection is made, the child should not be relocated unless:
the person who objected later agrees;
the parties reach a legally effective agreement; or
the court authorizes the relocation.
The parties may use lawyer negotiation, mediation, collaborative family law, judicial dispute resolution, or another safe process. Settlement may involve relocation with a redesigned schedule, postponement, a trial period where legally appropriate, or the child remaining while the proposing parent moves.
If agreement is not reached, a court application may be necessary. Relocation proceedings can be time-sensitive and evidence-heavy. A parent should not sign a lease, resign from employment, register the child in a distant school, or commit to a non-refundable move on the assumption that approval will follow.
How Does the Court Decide a Relocation Case?
The court’s only consideration in making a parenting decision is the child’s best interests. Under the Divorce Act, the primary consideration is the child’s physical, emotional, and psychological safety, security, and well-being.
The general best-interests factors include:
the child’s needs and stage of development;
the child’s need for stability;
relationships with each parent, siblings, grandparents, and other important people;
each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent;
the child’s history of care;
the child’s views and preferences, considered in light of age and maturity;
cultural, linguistic, religious, spiritual, and Indigenous upbringing and heritage;
plans for the child’s care;
each person’s ability and willingness to meet the child’s needs;
the parents’ ability and willingness to communicate and cooperate where appropriate;
family violence and its effects; and
relevant civil or criminal proceedings, orders, conditions, or measures.
The court then considers relocation-specific factors. No one fact automatically decides the case.
Relocation-Specific Factors Under the Divorce Act
The Divorce Act directs the court to consider factors including:
the reasons for the proposed relocation;
the impact of the relocation on the child;
the amount of time the child spends with each person and their level of involvement;
whether proper notice was given;
any order, arbitral award, or agreement specifying the geographic area where the child must reside;
the reasonableness of the proposal for parenting time, decision-making responsibility, or contact after relocation;
whether the parties complied with family-law obligations and the likelihood of future compliance; and
the reasonableness of the proposed allocation of travel expenses.
The parent’s reasons are relevant, but the court does not simply decide whether the job, relationship, or lifestyle choice is reasonable in the abstract. It asks how the proposed move and resulting parenting arrangement affect this child.
The court must not consider whether the relocating parent says they would move without the child or remain if relocation is refused. This protects the decision from becoming a test of parental sacrifice.
Who Has the Burden of Proof?
The Divorce Act uses different burdens depending on the existing parenting arrangement.
Where the parents have substantially equal parenting time, the person proposing the relocation generally has the burden of proving that the move would be in the child’s best interests.
Where the child spends the vast majority of time with the relocating parent, the person opposing the relocation generally has the burden of proving that the move would not be in the child’s best interests.
In other arrangements, both parties generally have the burden of proving their respective positions.
These rules require a careful assessment of actual parenting time, not only labels such as “primary parent” or “shared custody.” The applicable burden does not replace the best-interests analysis; it determines who bears the risk if the evidence is ultimately insufficient.
Reasons for Moving
Common reasons include:
employment or education;
affordable housing;
proximity to extended family or cultural community;
a new relationship;
caregiving responsibilities;
access to medical or disability services;
safety from family violence;
return to a home community; and
improved stability or support.
The court examines evidence, not slogans. A job offer should be supported by terms, income, hours, benefits, and start date. A support network should identify who will help, how often, and with what. Housing and school claims should be based on actual options.
A move motivated primarily by restricting the other parent’s relationship can weigh heavily against relocation. Conversely, a genuine safety need or meaningful improvement in caregiving stability can be significant.
Building a Strong Relocation Plan
A child-focused proposal should explain how the child’s important relationships and routines will continue. It may include:
a detailed annual parenting calendar;
longer blocks during summer and school breaks;
allocation of holidays and special occasions;
responsibility for booking travel;
flight, driving, and exchange arrangements;
allocation of transportation costs;
virtual contact that does not interfere with daily life;
access to school and medical information;
attendance at important events;
travel-document and consent procedures;
flexibility for weather and cancellations;
accompaniment for a young child;
review as the child grows; and
a dispute-resolution process.
“The other parent can visit whenever they want” is rarely a sufficient plan. The proposal must be practical given cost, work, school, distance, and the child’s age.
Travel Costs
Relocation can substantially increase airfare, fuel, hotels, and time away from work. The Divorce Act specifically directs courts to consider the reasonableness of how travel expenses are proposed to be divided.
Possible arrangements include:
the relocating parent paying most or all added costs;
proportional sharing based on income;
a fixed annual travel budget;
each parent paying for trips they initiate;
use of loyalty points without reducing a defined obligation;
responsibility for missed or rebooked travel; and
adjustments to support where legally appropriate.
Travel costs and child support are related practical issues but should not be improvised.
Any adjustment must comply with support law and reflect the child’s circumstances.
The Child’s Views
A child does not have an automatic right to decide relocation at age 12 or any other fixed age. Their views and preferences must be considered where they can be ascertained and receive weight based on age and maturity.
An older child’s views may be influential where the move affects school, friendships, activities, culture, employment, or a close parental relationship. Younger children’s views may also matter, but they are considered alongside stability, safety, and development.
Views may be presented through a views-of-the-child report, parenting professional, counsel for the child, expert assessment, or other admissible evidence. The appropriate method depends on the case.
Parents should not ask the child to choose, rehearse answers, or make the child responsible for the court outcome.
Family Violence and Relocation
Family violence is directly relevant. A move may be proposed to obtain safety, housing, family support, confidentiality, or distance from coercive control. The court considers the violence, its effects, and whether cooperation or notice requirements are safe.
The Divorce Act permits a court to modify or dispense with relocation notice requirements where appropriate, including where there is a risk of family violence. A person should seek an order rather than quietly bypassing the process when possible.
Safety evidence may include:
protection and restraining orders;
criminal charges or release conditions;
police records;
threats, stalking, or tracking;
medical or counselling evidence;
shelter or safety-planning records;
financial control;
harm or exposure affecting the child; and
risks created by disclosing the new address.
A protection order does not automatically decide relocation, and relocation does not automatically resolve safety. Parenting exchanges, communication, address confidentiality, travel, and decision-making may require coordinated safeguards.
What If the Move Is Urgent?
Employment deadlines, housing loss, school registration, medical needs, and safety concerns can make a move feel urgent. Legal urgency is assessed based on evidence and the consequences of waiting.
Possible steps include:
an expedited court application;
an interim relocation request;
a request to modify notice;
temporary parenting arrangements;
protection or non-removal orders; and
preservation of passports or travel documents.
Self-created urgency can weaken a case. A parent should not wait until a moving truck is booked or school starts in a few days to raise a plan known for months.
Where immediate safety is at risk, call emergency services and obtain urgent legal and safety assistance.
What If a Parent Moves Without Consent or Notice?
Moving a child unilaterally can have serious consequences. The court may order the child returned, change parenting arrangements, award costs, draw adverse conclusions about willingness to support relationships, or impose other remedies.
If the child has already moved, act promptly. Delay can complicate jurisdiction, school and housing arrangements, and the practical status quo.
The appropriate response may include:
written demand for return;
an urgent non-removal or return application;
enforcement of an existing order;
preservation or surrender of passports;
police assistance where authorized;
an interprovincial application; or
proceedings under international child-abduction law.
Do not attempt to recover the child through force or deception. The legal route depends on the order, destination, and risk.
Moving Within Alberta, to Another Province, or Abroad
The legal definition turns on impact, not whether a border is crossed. A move from Calgary to Edmonton may be a relocation. A move within the same city may also qualify in unusual circumstances.
Interprovincial and international moves add issues such as:
which court has jurisdiction;
recognition and enforcement of orders;
school and health systems;
travel documents and consent letters;
immigration or citizenship status;
international treaties;
cost and reliability of travel;
language and cultural transition;
time zones; and
risk of non-return.
International relocation requires early advice. The court will need reliable information about the destination’s legal system, immigration requirements, enforceability, education, healthcare, and proposed safeguards.
Relocation Under Alberta’s Family Law Act
Not every Alberta parenting case proceeds under the Divorce Act. Unmarried parents and others may have orders under Alberta’s Family Law Act.
The federal prescribed notice and objection scheme should not be assumed to govern every provincial case in exactly the same way. The Alberta order, agreement, legislation, rules, and best-interests test must be reviewed.
Provincial orders may contain:
geographic restrictions;
notice requirements;
consent requirements for school or residence changes;
dispute-resolution clauses;
travel-document terms; and
directions about applications to vary.
The absence of a detailed clause does not necessarily permit a move that substantially disrupts the child’s parenting relationships.
Changing an Existing Parenting Order
A relocation often requires variation of an existing parenting order. Under the Divorce Act, the court generally must be satisfied that there has been a change in the child’s circumstances before varying a parenting order. The statutory relocation process addresses how proposed moves are handled, but the specific procedural route depends on the existing case.
The new order may need to address:
the child’s primary residence;
parenting time;
decision-making responsibility;
transportation and costs;
holidays and communication;
school and medical information;
travel documents;
review dates; and
enforcement across jurisdictions.
Informal consent to try a schedule may not amend an existing order. Lasting changes should be documented properly.
Evidence in a Relocation Case
Useful evidence may include:
the existing parenting order and actual parenting calendar;
school, medical, and activity records;
employment offers and work schedules;
housing options and costs;
childcare plans;
travel routes, schedules, and prices;
information about the proposed school and community;
evidence of extended-family support;
communication about the move;
history of facilitating or obstructing parenting time;
family-violence evidence;
the child’s views through an appropriate process; and
a detailed comparison of the move and no-move plans.
Evidence should connect facts to the child. General claims that one city is “better” or that a parent “deserves a fresh start” are less useful than concrete information about care, relationships, stability, and safety.
Both parties should present a workable plan. The objecting parent should explain how the child would be cared for if relocation is denied, not only criticize the proposed destination.
Common Relocation Mistakes
Assuming primary residence means permission to move
Primary care does not eliminate notice requirements or the other parent’s relationship with the child.
Giving informal notice only
A conversation, email, or text may not satisfy the prescribed Divorce Act process.
Missing the objection deadline
Thirty days can pass quickly. A recipient should obtain advice immediately.
Committing to the move before approval
Irreversible commitments can create self-imposed urgency and financial risk.
Offering an unrealistic long-distance schedule
Frequent weekend flights may be exhausting, unaffordable, or incompatible with school.
Focusing only on the parent’s opportunity
The court decides based on the child’s best interests and the complete parenting plan.
Asking the child to choose
This places an unfair burden on the child and can undermine the reliability of their views.
Ignoring family violence
Safety can affect notice, communication, parenting structure, and the relocation analysis.
When Should You Speak With a Family Lawyer?
Legal advice is especially important when:
a move may affect the parenting schedule;
relocation notice has been received;
the 30-day objection period is running;
an order restricts the child’s residence or school;
the proposed move is interprovincial or international;
employment, housing, or school deadlines are approaching;
family violence or address confidentiality is a concern;
a parent has moved or threatens to move without consent;
passports or non-return risks are involved;
the child strongly supports or opposes the move;
travel costs are substantial; or
an existing order must be varied.
Early advice provides time to comply with notice requirements, gather evidence, develop a realistic plan, and explore settlement before positions harden.
How Bridgestone Law Can Help
Bridgestone Law assists clients in Calgary and throughout Alberta with proposed relocations, objections, notice requirements, parenting plans, family violence, urgent non-removal and return applications, interprovincial and international moves, negotiation, mediation support, and court proceedings.
We can assess whether a move is a relocation, prepare a child-focused proposal or objection, organize the necessary evidence, and seek practical long-distance parenting terms.
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